Should I ask for a DBS check from a babysitter?

In-home babysitting isn't regulated like nurseries, so DBS checks aren't legally required. However, it's one factor you might consider as part of a broader vetting process. Many babysitters do have a DBS from previous work. What matters more is that you carry out proper reference checks, ask thorough interview questions and - if you're using a platform - that the service has done identity and background checks for you.

How long should a babysitter interview take?

Aim for 30-45 minutes if it's a proper interview. If you're just checking in quickly before a first sit, that's less intensive, but ideally you want enough time to really talk to them. Some babysitters prefer to do this over a video call, others in person - the medium doesn't matter as much as the conversation being genuine. Consider paying for their time commensurate with how involved the interview is.

What if a babysitter says no to something I'm asking?

That's useful information. If they won't follow your household rules, or they refuse to give references, or they're dismissive about safety - those are good reasons to keep looking. You're not looking for someone to agree with everything; you're looking for someone who respects your parenting and takes their responsibility seriously.

Should I do a trial sit?

It's a good idea, especially if you've never used this babysitter before. A short sit while you're at home, or a shorter booking when you're nearby, gives you both a chance to see if it actually works in practice. Sometimes the interview goes great but the reality is different.

What if I ask a question and feel uncomfortable with the answer?

Trust your instinct. Parenting is partly about gut feel, and if something doesn't sit right during an interview, it probably won't sit right when you're leaving your kids with them. There are plenty of babysitters out there - book someone you feel genuinely confident about.