How long does it take to build trust with a new babysitter?

Most parents feel comfortable after two to four sits with the same sitter. The first sit gives you a baseline, the second confirms it, and by the third most parents have a clear sense of whether this is someone they want to keep. A good meet and greet before the first sit speeds this up considerably.

Should I do a trial run with a new babysitter?

Yes - a trial sit where you stay in the house while the sitter looks after the children is one of the most effective ways to build trust before leaving them solo. It lets you see how the sitter and your children interact in real time, without the pressure of having to go anywhere. An hour or two is usually enough.

What should I tell a new babysitter before the first sit?

Give them your contact number, the address of where you will be, emergency contacts (including 999 and your nearest A&E), your child's bedtime routine, any allergies or medications, meal information, house rules and what to do if your child gets upset. Writing this down means your sitter has something to refer to during the evening.

Is it normal to feel anxious leaving your child with a new babysitter?

Completely normal. Most parents feel nervous the first time, especially if their child is young or has not spent time with anyone outside the family before. The anxiety tends to ease quickly once you have done a meet and greet, run a trial sit and briefed your sitter properly.

Does a babysitter need a DBS check?

There is no legal requirement for a babysitter to have a DBS check for private, informal arrangements. However, some sitters choose to get one voluntarily, and if they have done so it is worth asking to see the original certificate. Many parents find that thorough references, reviews from other families and verified ID checks provide a robust picture of a sitter's background.